Reviews for Soulmate Relationships

Meg – Excellent Book
This book is surprising in terms of just how much it covers. I’ve read it through several times now and am still finding gems of ideas. It’s given me the confidence to wish wholeheartedly for a soulmate and that, for me, is a wonderful step. The Law of the Even Deal is helping me to understand why my history of relationships has been, frankly, pretty awful. I can really recommend this book to other people who want to turn it all around.

M. STALEY “LoveLife” (Essex. U.K.) – Brilliant
I have read this book several times and her advice is priceless. From an even deal to knowing someone’s ‘flaws’ within half an hour of meeting them. Someone who knows her stuff and has lived it! If you want to meet your soulmate: read it!

Mary Pettigrew – Wonderful Book!
Thank you very much for sharing your wonderful and extremely useful knowledge I have acquired in this book. It is a must for everyone after the failure of the first serious relationship – or if someone is mature enough it should be a complusory reading before marriage.

Pen – Very Good!
I am a counsellor and I am very impressed with this book. A lot of research has gone into it from a wide range of sources: Family therapy, systemic therapy, Buddhism and Taoism. I found it particularly enlightening how the author succeeded in combining these more esoteric traditions with down-to-earth Western approaches. I use this book a lot in my work with couples and all my clients who struggle with relationship problems – with very good results!

Vince – Got there!
Thank you Ulli for writing this book and helping me to find the love of my life. For longer than I care to remember, I was floundering in terms of finding a partner i could feel truly happy with. Many things seemed to wrong but your book has helped me to understand my mistakes and get on track. Now it’s happened I will always be in your debt.
Thank you.

Rada – Life-changing experience!
This review is from: Soulmate Relationships: Understanding, Finding and Keeping Them (Paperback)
I was very lucky to find this book. I also want to thank you Ulli, for sharing all this to us. It is a wonderful writing, I feel I want to buy 30 copies and send them to all my friends to save them from pain, it solves all problems…. It’s a book to read over and over with an incredible pleasure of saying “that’s so right! How could I live until know without knowing or noticing all these!” The information flows nicely, I love the English in the book, I enjoyed every sentence, the layout too. It’s so much wisdom under this red-orange cover…

Stuart_1981
Was really impressed by the simple and helpful advise the author imparts. This book has really helped me enrich my understanding of how to find a suitable partner, amazing advise and I would recommend highly.

Sava Dan Cristian Stefan “Dan” (Romania, Bucharest) – Wonderful book and a very powerful, clear, well-established view in the matter
“Soulmate Relationships: Understanding, Finding and Keeping Them” makes for a very pleasant read. Virtually every paragraph has its place, with a clear, flowing meaning behind it. The book makes excellent use of english and looks like it was thoroughly perfected before print.

This quality of meaning and expression reflects the quality of teachings within. It is a great manual in the matter of romantic relationships, that takes you step by step all the way. The author’s understanding in the matter appears exquisite and portrays it within clearly defined reasoning structures, resulting in a view that provides a complete, powerful understanding for the reader. Her “model” of reality for relationships is truly remarkable.

I would highly recommend the book to anyone who is looking for a “true” relationship or wishing to further empower one, and merely recommend it to anyone else!

So, what is the book about ?
The first part, Understanding, talks about the mechanics of good relationships, including the law of an even deal, attraction by character differences and strength in similar values between partners.
The second, Finding, talks about how you need to be to open up to relationships, and rules of thumb on how you recognize a good partner. Also, a few suggestions on where or how to find what you’re looking for, among other things.
The third, Keeping, points out relationship stages and how to maintain good mechanics over time. This does point back to part 1, expanding it.

As I see it, the author has had experience as a counselor and it shows. Her conclusions are based on a good level of statistics, from said experience. She is also a spiritual person, greatly influencing her way of looking at things and the attitude in the book.
Phileana – Deep and practical advice that goes beyond the usual
I was interested in this book because I had found The Five-Minute Miracle, by the same author, tremendously helpful at a difficult time in my life. I am the veteran of three marriages, two of which ended in divorce, but the third was eleven years of happiness ended by my husband’s death. I’ve thought a lot about what made my third marriage so much better, and I wondered
what she’d have to say about relationships, and how she would apply her Buddhist principles to this issue. I was not disappointed. As I’d hoped, she makes the point that having a good relationship is not about matching ourselves or our potential partner to some superficial list of attractive traits. It’s about understanding and becoming the kind of person, with the kind of character, who is good at relationships, and then learning to recognize the same thing in others.

Along with the wisdom she shares on these lines, she gives some practical advice about making relationships work that I’ve never seen before, but which I think is excellent and true. She points out that every relationship of any kind involves what she calls “the law of an even deal,” that is, both parties must give and get roughly the same value from being in it. She cautions against both giving and taking too much. She also gives advice on how to value and shelter your partner’s masculinity or femininity at its most vulnerable points. Her advice may seem sexist or old-fashioned, but I believe it’s neither. I believe it’s based on careful observation and is correct. She also is convinced that we can know from our first encounter whether a relationship will work, and talks us through how to evaluate that first meeting intelligently–advice I wish I’d had in my youth. And she throws in an excellent section on tantric sex.

Why, then, do I not give this book five stars? Her section on disagreements and how to fight is a bit too short to say clearly all she wants to say, and is not as good advice as the best parts of the book. Her discussion of lies and deceit in a relationship is also a bit weak, but in a different way. She warns against untruth between relationship partners, but softens her condemnation in a way that might lead some readers who are in a deceitful relationship to underestimate the destruction that untruths can cause. I find this odd, because I’m sure she doesn’t condone lies in any way, but somehow, that doesn’t come across as strongly as it might have.

These weaknesses aside, I found this an excellent book that really will help you to evaluate potential soulmates, and become the kind of person who could be a soulmate for someone else.

Mark – This book helps
In writing this book Ulli Springett offers help to anyone who wants to find a soulmate by breaking down the process into a number of steps. It provides a framework, mixing the practical and metaphysical in a unique way, with simple excercises to enhance both and help you first of all define what you want in your soulmate, not just what they look like or do, but other questions such as what their fundamental qualities are? What do you have to offer them in return? How will others benefit from your relationship? Ulli sets the process of finding your soulmate as something to be enjoyed rather than endured, emphasising the playful aspects of getting yourself ready as well as giving tips on how to ensure you have the right partner, or if you should keep on looking. Then, once you are sure, how to proceed past the potential pitfalls that could stop things dead in their tracks before they even started. If you’re interested in finding (and keeping) your soulmate reading this book will help you.

Karen M. Black – The Soulmate Site – Great balance of ‘how to’ and ‘why’
I’ve done quite a bit of research about soulmates in the course of my own work, and I was delighted to discover some new perspectives from Ulli Springett. Her approach to soulmates is both psychologically sound, forthright, heart-healing and practical in the real world. Also, compassionate and easy to read!

In particular, understanding The Six Relationship Test Questions are a must for anyone who’s dating. The discussion on balancing Male and Female energy to create a relationship that is both romantic and sexually exciting for both partners makes so much sense – whether a couple is in the honeymoon stage, or in a mature relationship.

I also loved the chapter on the “Unavoidable merging” of partners, from an energetic / clairvoyant standpoint – this is something that isn’t talked enough about in my view, and it the best reason I’ve seen to delay sex, until you answer the Six Relationship Questions. This energy exchange between couples is something that’s rarely talked about, but which all women should know about their bodies, and how they manage their own energy and boundaries.

All in all, there’s loads of sound ‘how to’ in this book… but it is MUCH MORE than a how to. Highly recommended for anyone seeking a true (non woo woo) soulmate relationship in their lives.

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